AGENT CHANGE VS. GROWTH

So in true Domo form- I felt inspired to write this note about the issue of change vs. growth. I've been on a hiatus from alot of things and some may say I have changed but I just think I've outgrown some things- b****** in particular. In my expert opinion HAHAHAHAHA! (I'd be a better expert on the mating techniques of the American Mudduck), but no I believe that a lot of times people confuse the two.

CHANGE-

This is an element that can be both good or bad- when someone changes they can do so for the better or for the worst. Some may say that someone or something influenced that change but I for one don't want to be changed because I love who I am. Many times in relationships and friendships we try to change that person but why? Did you not fall in love or in some cases infatuation with whom you thought they were in that very moment if so why CHANGE who they are? Could it be an inner jealousy or insecurity that leads you to want to change who that person is or could they just not be the one for you

then's there's GROWTH-

Growth in my opinion has no negative connotation- it only represents positivity. You cannot grow down only up- you can only grow closer or apart which is not necessarily a bad thing. Its just recognizing that two three or even four people are blazing separate trails and if you truly cared for that other person you would elevate them in their growth not seek to leave them stagnant and wiltering just because you selfishly are a miserable ass mudduck

I definitely have my faults and my flaws but I recognize them in order to OUTGROW them not- CHANGE the beautifully talented amazing effervescent, loopy lovely and loud, irrational at times individual that I have come to grow, know and love

So here's to growth NOT change IN all of your lives and thanks for checking out my blog,

As always Fashionably Yours,

Domo "Destined for Greatness in Agent GROWTH" DeVeReaux